Lesbian dating
really isn’t all that different to what most people consider ‘normal’ hook ups.
Two people meet, they discover they both love the same things and then in turn
fall in love with each other. They make big life decisions, introduce each
other to their families and friends, move in together, buy pets and one day
consider getting married and having children.
However, like any
relationship there are pros and cons and you can find some of these listed
below to consider before jumping head first into a wonderful relationship with
another girl:
Pros of lesbian
dating: you get to date a girl
Girls are soft,
sensitive and usually emotionally mature, unlike guys who don’t understand why
you’re glaring at them, as they scratch their crotch while chatting to your Mum
at a family BBQ. Girls understand what is required in a relationship and make
the effort.
Cons of lesbian
dating: you get to date a girl
With two girls in
a relationship that myth about PMS and periods syncing is tested and usually
turns out to be true (even though there’s actually no scientific evidence to
back up that it happens). That means double the grouchiness and snappy
comments, when you turn into a bear the week before you start your next cycle.
Pro of lesbian
dating: no unwanted pregnancies
No babies for
you, unless you actively seek out other ways of becoming pregnant or adopting.
Cons of lesbian
dating: the unwanted comments and prejudice
Of course with
your same sex comes the narrow mindedness of others and plenty of awkward or
even nasty situations. Try not to let the negativity stand in the way of your
love for each other though, if you know you’re meant to be together.
Pros of lesbian
dating: you will never receive a horrifying sext, within the first five minutes
of talking online
Why do guys think
it’s okay to send a picture of their genitals within five minutes? No one likes
looking at full frontal willy shots.
Cons of lesbian
dating: the dating pool is much, much smaller
Online dating
sites might have tailored areas for those interested in the same sex to find
each other, MySingleFriend lesbian dating is a great example of this,
but the choice is still pretty limited. That doesn’t mean you can’t be picky,
you might just be looking for longer for that special lady.
Pros of lesbian
dating: you know how to please each other
Hey, you’ve both
got the same parts that essentially work the same so any time spent in the
bedroom is going to be enjoyable.
Cons of lesbian
dating: your budget for sex toys must increase
There’s only so
much you can do yourself and so that drawer under the bed rapidly fills up with
fun toys to play with, which also impacts on your bank account because Ann
Summers isn’t cheap.
Pros of lesbian
dating: your wardrobe doubles in size
If you and your
girlfriend are around the same size your wardrobes basically blend into one big
fun railing of clothing that you share.
Cons of lesbian
dating: your girlfriend will steal your favourite item of clothing
That leather
jacket you love? You won’t get a look in. And those Converse that you just
bought? Yeah, she’s wearing them now.